Hosts

Ray is a survivor of Religious trauma. He was raised in a High Demand Church tradition in a manner similar to the Duggar family. If you are not familiar with this show, google Shiny Happy People.
 
Kim is a pastor in the ELCA, the more liberal branch of the Lutheran Church. Ordained in 2001, Kim has served 4 congregations. Kim is GenX, raised in a low demand typical family of that time. Kim is also Ray's Aunt.


Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Homeschooling and Religious Trauma

 Hi!  Our latest podcast is now live. Homeschooling and Religious trauma. In this podcast Ray talks about his experience with being homeschooled and then transitioning into Community College. Going from a bubble of church and home and suddenly needing to make your own decisions and navigate in the adult world can be jarring. Ray talks about how well prepared for adult life his schooling taught him and it's pitfalls.   A little history: The book Hijacking History: How the Religious Right Teaches History and Why it Matters, by Kathleen Wellman is very helpful in understanding what is going on. When schools in the south became unsegregated a few men got together and started homeschooling and Christian Academies in order to keep their children from mixing with black kids. It starts out to maintain the status quo in the south and becomes as one family member put it, "the Baptist thing to do". Parents were essentially sold a bag of goods that promised a better education th...
Read more

Growing up Trans in Evangelicalism parts 1 & 2

  In our podcast on Growing Up Trans, Ray takes a break and I interview Asher. Asher talks about growing up and learning at a young age that his desire to be male was not ok. He then tries and lives the best he can as a parent and spouse. Ash was taught it was God's plan for all women to be wives and mothers and that this lifestyle would be fulfilling. Unfortunately, life as a stay-at-home mom was not as fulfilling as he was led to believe. In these two episodes you are invited to hear Asher's journey and the challenges he faced as he and his then husband came to terms with Asher's reality.  I became an advocate for gay and lesbian rights in seminary. I started in the fall of 1994 and began dating a bright, good looking, talented man. After about a month of dating he said to me, "Kim you are everything I could want in a wife, but I could never remain faithful." I was the first person he came out to, and at that time the seminary we attended was not open to gay and...
Read more

What is Christianity?

Our newest podcast has been posted and in it Ray and I talk about our experiences with Christianity. We decided to start with the 1828 definition and the modern Merriam-Webster. Christianity doesn't appear in the 1828 dictionary, and in Merriam-Webster it is:  :  the religion derived from Jesus  Christ , based on the Bible as sacred scripture, and professed by Eastern, Roman Catholic, and Protestant bodies I highlighted this definition because at it's core, Christianity is about Jesus. Most people who have been exposed to Jesus' teachings do not have a problem with him. Many people have a problem with his followers. A quote I learned in college, "You Christians why aren't you more like your Christ? " Ghandi.  The amount of trauma and individuals who will never darken the door of a church is an indictment of how people who call themselves Christian treat the people they meet and the systems in place that allow for no oversight of clergy, no academic training of...
Read more